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The Art of Backbiting: Why Staying Calm and Nice Is the Best Response

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  Have you ever come across someone who’s nice to your face but talks badly about you behind your back? It’s a frustrating experience that can leave you feeling hurt and confused. This is what we call backbiting — a situation where people pretend to be kind to your face but secretly undermine you when you’re not around. But here’s the thing: If you find yourself in such situations, there’s actually a better way to handle it than getting angry or upset. The best response is simple:  be calm and nicer . What is Backbiting? Backbiting is when someone speaks negatively about another person when they aren’t present to defend themselves. It’s like playing a game of pretending to be nice on the outside, but being mean and malicious on the inside. These people often say hurtful things or spread rumors about others to feel better about themselves. It can leave you feeling devastated, especially when you realize the person is someone you trusted or considered a friend. But don’t let the...

Do You Truly Understand Love, or Are You Misinterpreting It?

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  Love is a powerful word. It's something many of us crave and search for, but there’s a common misconception about what love really is. For most of us, we are taught to believe that love is something we give to only one person, that perfect soulmate who will make us happy and complete. But the truth is,  love is not just something you share with one person —it’s something much bigger. The Myth of the “Prince Charming” We’ve all heard the stories, whether in fairytales, movies, or from others around us: "One day, you’ll meet your prince (or princess), and they will make everything better." The idea is that happiness will come from meeting someone who fills the gaps in your life, someone who makes you feel whole. But waiting for that one person to come and “complete” you? That’s not love. The truth is,  love doesn’t come from one person . It isn’t about finding someone to fill you up emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.  Love isn’t a thing that someone else gives yo...